Question: How Do Kids Learn Empathy?
Most toddlers are "all about me," but parents and providers can be pleasantly surprised to see self-centered tots transform into youngsters who really care about others. How can adults help encourage kids learn empathy?
Answer: It is normal for toddlers to think of themselves first. But when tots begin to tune into other kids' needs, it means they are starting to broaden their world a little, and essentially start a big step toward growing up! While the compassion may be fleeting or sporadic, adults can help encourage this budding behavior by praising a tot the next time he shows consideration of someone else's feelings. But don't expect that the empathic behavior will remain all the time; after all, toddlers still consider themselves the true queen or king! Here are some compassionate steps you can encourage with youngesters:
- Showing concern over another child's hurt feelings
- Hugging a friend or expressing sadness when he gets a boo-boo
- Taking turns with a prized toy or possession
- Letting someone get the first choice of a treat or being first in line
- Making friends with someone new